The Harsh Social Impact of the Shallon Lester Drama


What is this whole drama really about? Gender? Psychological Abuse?

00:30 – What Shallon Lester did & her defenders
02:09 – Man vs Women? Gender War & Group Think
05:00 – How both Genders can Abuse.
06:00 – PUAs, Incels & Manosphere vs Shallon & “Female” Content
07:00 – Cancel Culture & Double Standards

09:10 – I’m not only defending Men
11:00 – Deflecting the argument. (Lemons vs Oranges)
13:15- The Divide between Male & Female
17:00 – “Stay in your lane” + Racism
19:26 – My Direct Experience with Manipulation

21:27 – Celebrity Gossip isn’t the Problem
23:00 – If a young girl takes Shallon’s Advice
26:47 – Imagine if your Son or Daughter met Shallon.
29:00 – Why her past action’s still matter
30:48 – My Experience with Bullies & Abuse.

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  1. People keep saying abuse is abuse not matter the gender, BUUUUUT……. when the abuse is subtle, and beneath the surface, that is ten times more destructive than blatantly hitting people. yea its wrong to physically abuse someone, but most of the times it leaves scars and marks on the body. However, emotional abuse is NOT that easy to see.

    Add to that an attractive face, a disarming demeanor with a soft voice, and you have a weapon disguised as a soft plush toy.

    yes wrong for both genders, but when women do it, its almost impossible to see. Unless you look closer. I mean johnny Depp almost lost everything. If he didn't have those recordings, She would have gotten away with it. She even made it look like he was physically abusing her when he never touched her.

    So…..whats more dangerous here? I'd say the subtle type. And females seem to be the ones to pull this off lock step.

  2. I feel your frustration. The video was on point. Your take on things is a beacon of light. I watch your videos and I completely understand and agree with you. I wish i could show you how I see you. "They don't deserve you" (lyric Billie Eilish) anyways…Im sending love to you from Texas….have a great day. And just kno that you're somebody

  3. I do definitely see the connection between Shallon's content and incel content. I did not think I'd see the day but she's so close to being the female version of an incel. I can't believe it took me so long to realize it. She's so… icky. I hate that she uses the feminist label. It just takes away from women's plight.

  4. People's perceptions of what an abuser looks like are so skewed and rigid, the pattern is so restrictive and has nothing to do with reality and that's reflected in a lot of parts of human society like prisons, probation, the criminal justice system, etc. In the uk at least, there are virtually no programmes for perpetrators of intimate partner violence who are women (the programmes for men aren't suitable for both genders – as you said the abuse form is slightly different BUT JUST AS ABUSIVE). So even in the world of mental health professionals, they're still wrapping their minds around what abusers are, that female abusers are a real thing. People need much more flexibility in their narrow view of what an abuser is.
    It's really great to see people like you though, who approach these topics from a neutral ground and are so sensitive to all the nuances to a problem whilst admitting that we do need to generalise every once in a while to have a conversation.

  5. Racism is racism it doen't matter if you experience racism of being black o asian or transexual the experience and pain must be equal I guess

  6. THANK YOU! I'm a teenage girl that has been watching Shallon for around a year. Initially I really enjoyed Shallon's content, but then too many red flags started popping up for me. I tend to have a problem with how feminists like Shallon characterize men and you've laid out my exact thoughts on this issue. I feel more people should be taking her to task for her abusive tendencies towards men rather than her mindless and catty celebrity gossip.

  7. “I’m not a girl, I’m not a woman…but I sure can pass for one-“

    Yeah until that deep bass boosted comes out of your mouth…

  8. Hi Pierre! I actually found you through your video on Shallon and you put a lot of things in perspective for me. Thank you for sharing.

  9. That's exactly why nowadays is soo freaking problematic to explain you're a feminist, I used to take pride on it and I was tremendously involved in some good causes in my town, but damn I had the horrible experience to meet the radicals, the type of ladies like Shallon and Amber Herd that converted feminism into this toxic "all men are fucking trash" and "all men deserve to be treated less like a dog" even if they have actual evidence of the woman being the abusive one they just simply refused to acknowledge this and call me a fake feminist… Like c'mon this specific thing about Shallon is NOT ABOUT GENDER DAMMIT! We should take a moment to dissect situations without blindly make it all about "what about the other group"

  10. Woman like to use the fact that woman get away with it (people usually believe woman) and there is nothing they can do it about. It's disgusting. Woman scream equality but they don't mean it when they now face the same scrutiny a man does

  11. Sorry, but how are you different? There is a systemic campaign against a person that regardless of what her beliefs or intentions were, yours are for sure ultimately malicious against her. To me it's really a case the kettle calling the pot black.

  12. Hi Pierre 👋🏽 Great Video and cancel culture is BS🤷🏽‍♀️ Shallow is evil. On a sidenote your voice is great maybe you can get into voice overs for books or for animation.

  13. I would say that even with the worst cases of youtubers displaying gross behaviour, not everyone is going to agree on the same note, sadly even some of the worst people have defenders doing mental gymnastics for them. That being said, she has lost lots of followers and every video is full of comments of people saying they won't be supporting her anymore, we should focus on that, and continue to hold her accountable, that's the change that needed to happen, and there will always be people trying to defend her maybe because they see themselves in her, or because she is a manipulator and they don't care or can't look and evaluate facts on their own… maybe their time to understand will come, maybe not, but for now, consequences are starting to happen.

  14. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. i am a woman, i grew up acting very different, having a different style, different behavior, different viewpoints. i was bullied/harassed by both guys and girls during adolescence, but the girls were so much sneakier, so much more manipulative, so much more meticulous about it. the boys said mean things to my face, laughed, etc. but it was outright and obvious what they were doing. the girls were nice to me to get information on my other friends so they could extend the harassment to them. they’d act like my friend and then talk about me behind my back, make plans to corner me on the bus and beat me (which did happen). they thought their attacks through. i have been in abusive relationships and witnessed the women i love being abused by men. so i’ve seen ways that both carry out their abuse tactics. something else that somewhat relates to the points you’re making; i have a stan twitter account with no photos of me. no identifying information besides a shortened version of my name. so people don’t see that i’m latina. if i make a comment in defense of someone who’s being painted as racist towards mexicans/latinos/natives/hispanic people, when i don’t agree and i’m not offended by said person’s actions, or i can see where it’s been misconstrued, i notice it’s mostly white people on twitter who come at me for defending this person, painting me as a racist. until i make it aware i’m latina. then their tone changes. why? what changed? i was latina when i made the initial comments? even if i wasn’t, why wouldn’t i be allowed to make an opposing argument? why should i have to stay out of it completely unless i have one specific viewpoint that the mob can agree with? i can see that being applied here. why can’t a man call out a woman who’s being abusive? the answer is, he CAN. i’m exhausted with cancel culture. with the standards people have been placed with on the internet. i’m glad you are talking about this.

  15. Great video, just want to say. MGTOW and redpilled guys aren't really that bad, even though there are definitely some incels hiding in those communities. PUAs are kind of cringe though.

  16. Lmaooooo, I literally can't imagine trying to make excuses for a literal predator. They're also probably the same people that would attack a man for doing exactly what she's doing. so incredibly hypocritical and disgusting.

  17. Preachhhhhh!!! I had a female manager who was very abusive to the females in her workplace! She actually physically abused one of my former coworkers, who's an elderly woman. She also tried to get me fired because i wouldn't have dinner with her and her male finance. She has done way worst too, but guess what?? After complaning to corporate, they did nothing because most of corporate were women. It was so disappointing because most of us were women and our female manager was being so abusive! She would make sexual advances to me everyday. None of us work there anymore. That woman is scarrrry.

  18. Off topic but how are you keep those braids fresh? Do you do your own retouches? And Jesus your head must hurt piling them up like that all the time.

  19. Double standard – Bad
    Racism- Bad
    Bullying- Bad
    All the above are awful. And Pierre XO I agree. Shallon Lester's manipulative tactics are bad. Trying to justify her actions is bad as well. I do appreciate that you talked about how her content is bad and harmful.

  20. Literally just told my husband that I was in love with a youtube person. Like, I said you wear makeup but you're not a beauty blogger, youre not mixed (like me) but you know about racism and youre well informed about everything. Just sayin… I'm in love with you now.

  21. the difference with shallon is that she is teaching impressionable people to be toxic like her which is disgusting and unacceptable. at this point she can be a cult leader.

  22. Hey umm…
    Are you ok? you seem to have gone through a lot. The fact that you are using your platform to help others recognize the type of behavior that hurt you warms my heart.

    As someone who has been bullied and manipulated by people who I thought were my friends, I thank you for being kind.
    Not only this but I think you are very helpful. I've been told by a cousin, who is quite smart when it comes to other's feelings, that he's worried in the future I'll end up in emotionally abusive relationships easily. Knowing people like you are helping shed light on this is refreshing.

    I hope you are doing better there in Prague and that you are treated nicely!

  23. My problem here is the argument depends on children, who should either be monitored or not online anyway. Seems like we're grasping at straws to cancel her, don't get me wrong i think she's scum but i guess you can call me a free speech extremist. There are useful reasons to let her expose herself, no knowledge is immoral.

    I'll use myself here and say i listen in to what mgtows and incels have to say. None of them have solutions or think there are any but they make valid points, if you can be mature and trim the rhetoric fat off the meat of some of their arguments. For me the parralel between her and red pills is we bat them away for what we think we know. To be fair i do think she's actually evil unlike incels but you should arm yourself with any knowledge you can get. Keep your enemies closer and all that.

  24. I found it very interesting how D'Angello mentioned her previous Agent Shallon (??) videos, and even her videos from 3 years ago, the way she talks is SO DIFFERENT, i was astonished

  25. women can be psychopaths too…I've seen a few… not all women are always the "fragile", "caring", "loving" person…according statistics from ManKind Initiative, from UK, 2.5% men were victims of domestic abuse in 2018/2019 (against 4.8% for women)…and I think the undernotification for men might be way worst than for women…

  26. Shallon Lester is the gender blender version of Jeffree Star so she may still be exist and still be powerful and have a devout following.

  27. Thank you for this video, you helped me to acknowledge more traits of hers i knew of but didnt take in.
    I found it very interesting as i have been watching her for a year now, and I'd think how tiring all her "fuck boy" videos were, having been with the same "unproblematic" guy for two years, it both being our first relationship. I never would listen to her "manipulation" tactics as I am just not that kind of person, I dont even know what to ask 😂 All i really tried to take from it is to still remain your own person in a relationship, as I think I kind of lost myself.

    Edit:: one definitive negative thing i have noticed (i assume due to watching 80% of her uploads) i have become more judgemental towards others, i guess as thats how she is. I need to start working on myself to be as i was before.


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